That's terrific - thanks very much for providing these measurements.
The first measurement is the same that suggests my radiator support is in the right place relative to the front crossmember.
The second measurement isn't a million miles out and is within the scope of adjustability, and at just over 1cm is still significantly less than the 3-4cm that the bumper sticks out by. I have deliberately set up my crossmember to be as far back as possible to try and get the bumper to fit properly. If I set up the crossmember to be the same distance from the front reinforcement as yours then the bumper would stick out even more......
So.... if the reinforcement rod that goes from the bottom of the radiator support to the front reinforcement fits ok (which it does) and the overall measurements are approx the same as yours it would seem to suggest that the basic geometry and dimensions at the front of the car are good, leaving the possibility that the centre brace is the wrong length, which doesn't seem at all likely. Or I'm being stupid somewhere along the line. ... which is distinctly possible.
Time for another think.......