Update, I stripped the console plate and shifter gaitor today. There is side to side slop in the shifter plates before The side movement to engage reverse. I managed to get a 1/3 of a turn on the bolt that locates the plates within the shifter body, this did not remove the slop but may have reduce it marginally.
I then made a version of the half tennis ball fix under the inner gaitor. Put it all back in and went for a test. Not cured but dramatically improved the vibration / noise and to a level that i can live with. The hard rubbery / plastic toy I used is quite fir and I had to trim it in certain spots as I was worried that it might have pushed the shift lever back out of 2nd and 4th gear. It did’nt and I was feeling quite smug. I treated the car to a wash then went to put it away, I noticed a couple of times that wnen I thought It was in neutral it was actually still in reverse or first gear.
After tea , I dtripped it all out sgain and picked up a traditional tennis ball and a dog’s rubber ball. I am going to cut these in half now and see which works best. I think I am on the right track now , if one of these two work without restricting shift movement but stop the noises as well as the first toy, then I will not change to the stock shifter but order a rebuild kit for the hurst and do this at some time in the future. I will report after next test drive. Thanks to all for help and offers so far.
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